Why The Gender Binary Doesn’t Work (For Me)

For some, the sharp black and white of gender works. Identifying with the gender assigned at birth is unsurprisingly natural to many people; never having to worry about the social consequences that follow identifying otherwise certainly makes it a very appealing option. Being stared at, ostracized, or even physically hurt in public spaces because of […]

You Can Ask About Someone’s Gender Pronouns And Not Be Rude, I Was Asked About Mine Openly And Honestly

And I wasn’t taken aback but I was more over surprised that it happened to me so late in the game. Let me explain. I identify with whatever people feel more comfortable using; some choose to use he, him, his and others feel comfortable referring to me as she, her, hers. There wasn’t ever a set […]

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