Becoming an It girl is an attainment that is peculiar to certain sets of girls, mostly the extroverts, they have a personality trait that fits into the It-type of girl which makes them unique and appealing to both genders. They are the type of girls that the guys drool over with a charming smile, an engaging personality, and a friendly attitude. Let’s know about how to be an IT Girl.
Becoming an “IT girl” is not as difficult as you think even if you are not an extrovert. You can be the life of the party if you are bent on becoming that social butterfly in every gathering, by working on your weakness and channeling your strength to have the right attitude and having a renewed mindset.
Who Is An IT Girl?
It girl is a term that is used to describe a girl with a high level of popularity without having to flaunt sexuality or being a clout chaser. It is used to describe girls with fame, influence, and beauty. It originated in British upper-class society in the twentieth century and gained popularity after the release of “IT”, a movie by Paramount studio. However, it is now termed a word that describes beauty, confidence, and popularity.
They are the high-class ladies you see on TV being interviewed, on reality shows, and in some way, they have a story to tell their fans, keeping their fans updated about their lifestyle on social media. They are girls with amazing lifestyles that make people love them naturally.
8 Steps To Becoming An It Girl
- Stop Trying To Please everyone
- Radiate confidence
- Be approachable
- Memorize designer names by heart
- Embrace your flaws
- Never be scared to pitch your voice
- You’re the life of the party.
- Be very picky about which ones you go to.
Stop Trying To Please everyone Be yourself: You will lose yourself if you always try to please everyone, be yourself, do the things you enjoy, and love yourself.
Radiate confidence: Have confidence in yourself
Be approachable: You don’t have to be saucy because you’re trying to be an it-girl, let people feel safe around you
Memorize designer names by heart: Remember you are the people’s style icon, so ensure you know the trending designer’s name.
Embrace your flaws: Embrace your flaws and weaknesses, no one is perfect.
Never be scared to pitch your voice: Your voice is a tool, speak up when you’re supposed to do so and let your words create a glow when you speak
Be the life of the party: Socialize, and have a unique vibe that speaks energy when people are around you.
Be very picky about which ones you go to: You should not be found anywhere, be like a diamond that can’t be seen just anyhow
The Attitude Of An It Girl
Attitude is everything, Becoming an It-girl comes with a lifestyle and for you to be an It-girl, you need to live the life.
- Confidence
- Manifest
- Meditation
- Exercise and eat right
- Dress the part and set the trend
- Be kind
Confidence
If you become confident in yourself without an iota of self-doubt, people will see it through you. Confidence is very visible and it can easily play out when a girl has it. One of the attitudes of an It-girl is the confidence they radiate. An It-girl is always ready to pitch her voice so loud to the world because she believes her voice is a tool
Manifest
Manifesting is so underrated but an IT- girl believes she attracts what she manifests. Manifest the life you want every day and see the star play it out. Make a mantra for yourself that you repeat three times in the morning, work towards it, and stick it on the wall
Meditation
Find that “me-time” to reflect and meditate, you can find a suitable time and place for you to meditate, meditation is powerful and it eases you off stress.
Exercise and eat right
Don’t underestimate the power of exercise and good food, you can hit the gym if you want to be consistent, and keep healthy mental health.
Dress the part and set the trend
It-girls usually have great Instagram feeds, so you must put effort into dressing and taking amazing pictures. Showcase your style to your followers, don’t try to impress anyone though, be yourself. Remember, you’re setting a blueprint for your fans.
Be kind
As an It-girl, you must be approachable, you must be kind to the point that people can see your show of kindness and humility through you
Conclusion
In your quest to become an It girl, you don’t have to chase clouts by bringing others down because you want to be famous, don’t try to become someone else just because you want to be famous. Embrace the person you are now, and the person you’re becoming, and be fully aware that becoming an It-girl is a process, not a destination.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q1. Who is an it-girl?
An It girl is a term that is used to describe a girl with a high level of popularity without having to flaunt sexuality or being a clout chase
Q2. How do I become an It-girl?
Embrace the person you are, the person you’re becoming, and don’t try to please anyone, be approachable and dress like an It girl
Q3. What are the attributes of an it-girl?
- Confidence
- Manifest
- Meditation
